Alex predicted all of this. It’s frickin eerie. He told me he heard Nick’s voice, and he knew everything he needed to know about him from that. I totally didn’t believe him at the time.
He predicted that Nick would hurt me, that it would be in Valentine’s day, and that I would come back early. Everything has come true, and I didn’t see it coming at all. Very eerie how accurate he was.
I’m so grateful for Alex’s friendship. He’s the only person I have left go trust in the world. He’s picking me up from the airport in Saturday, a week early. It will be the last time I’ll ever see Nick. I’ve decided to move on, clean break, block Nick. He really let me down, he broke my heart. He broke my trust. He’s not who I thought he was at all. I can’t believe less than a week ago, he was asking me to move to California to live with him, now this shit? Seems surreal.
Lessons:
1. It is those you trust the most, who you think will never hurt you, who hurt you the most.
2. No one has the same heart as you.
3. Don't trust words. Promises. They are empty and are broken often.
6. Do not ignore red flags!!!!
7. Don't go out of your way to please anyone else
8. Don't give your personal power to anyone else
9. Avoid BDSM. Seems to attract those I should avoid.
10. Don't trust people. Don't count on people. People are so fickle, the only person you can count in is yourself
And 11. Listen to Alex. Follow his advice next time 😅 He's got a gift and he actually has your back, Sandy 😃
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